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For all the stylish guys out there wondering just how to tie a bow tie or just get better at it, there's a surefire way to whip any bow tie into shape. It's the D.A.P.P.E.R. method, and all it takes is six steps—and a steady hand. Check it out in the video below, then see our step-by-step guide below.

How to Tie a Bow Tie

Tying a bow tie has never been so simple. Remember the D.A.P.P.E.R. acronym and you'll always look sharp. Here's a breakdown of how to tie a bow tie, as demonstrated in the video.

1. Different Lengths

Start with one side longer than the other. The difference in length should be two to three inches.

2. A Simple Knot

Cross both sides and tuck the longer end up and over to create a simple knot.

3. Pinch a Bow

Fold the shorter end into the shape of a bow, pinching it against your neck.

4. Pull and Pluck

Pull the long side over the bow and then pluck both sides of the bow together.

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5. Enter the Loop

There will now be a hole in the bow near your neck, a loop behind the bow portion. Fold the middle of the dangling end of the bow tie and push it through the loop.

6. Refine

Refine the bow tie until it takes the shape you want.

Know Your Bows

Not all bow ties are created equally. They come in different silhouettes, each of which has a slightly different vibe.

Batwing

The batwing bow tie has a singular, slim width. Think of it as the gentleman's alternative to a skinny tie.

Hourglass

The hourglass bow tie silhouette is as classic as they come, fanning outward at its end points. Just keep yours relatively in check, unless you want to look like Gene Shalit.

Pointed

The pointed silhouette is very similar to an hourglass silhouette, but features pointed ends for a modern twist. Traditional, yes, but with a bit of attitude.

How to Pull Off a Bow Tie

Now that you've mastered tying your bow tie, here are pro tips on how to pull off the look.

Start with Solids

If you're new to the bow tie game, get your feet wet with a solid colored option (like a neutral navy) before moving on to prints and patterns.

Wear It Unexpectedly

Break your bow ties out of their usual suit routine and put them with something unexpected, like an indispensible denim jacket.

Mix Patterns

As you get more comfortable, start experimenting. Try mixing a pinstripe jacket with a complimentary polka dot bow tie or a paisley bow tie with a checkered shirt. A bow tie's smaller surface area means bolder colors and prints won't overpower your other patterned classic pieces.

When in Doubt, Stick With Chambray

If you want to invest in one versatile bow tie, make it chambray. Like its pocket square counterpart, chambray neckwear pairs easily with everything already hanging in your closet.

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